Emmy took a tumble down the stairs yesterday. She was more scared than hurt. But she cried for a while.
“Why did you come running so fast, Daddy?” she asked.
“To see if you were hurt,” he answered.
At six, Emmy is getting big. But her dad picked her up from the bottom of the stairs, and she sat on his lap for a while.
She is blessed with this dad of hers. Many don’t have a dad to come running. Some dads don’t care, and the worst willingly inflict pain on their kids.
Watching Tom with the kids is a study in how much fathers can mean in the lives of their children. Will is 19, but calls frequently to talk with his dad. I can hear them in conversation, laughing, talking about everything going on, big and small, sports, politics, music, plans. Will has many friends, but his best male friend is his dad. He doesn’t have to say it, I see it in how the two relate, especially since Will has reached young adulthood.
Dads don’t realize what a powerful thing it is to be there, just taking a call or making a call. It’s only a conversation. Nothing much. But those times color the entire life of the child they take time for. These fathers give a lifelong blessing to their kids. What a gift — to know they were wanted by their father. To know that whatever else happens in their lives, they had a dad who loved them.
That when they were hurt, he came running.